#5 The Friendship Audit.
20 May 2025
Entry #5
20 May 2025
Location: At home, messaging the other best friends who are not in this picture to tell them it’s because we don’t have nice photos together and we hardly take pictures anymore because they’re lazy, so that’s why only Ajjie and Asma’ are shown here and therefore we should take more photos from now on. Phew. #disclaimerbeforetheymerajuk
Ok does this sound familiar?
“She should’ve been there for me. I was there for her.”
Have you ever gone through calamities in life and thoughts like this about your friends come to your mind? Maybe you don’t explicitly say it out loud, but a whisper in your heart keeps playing it on loop, evoking disappointment within.
Let’s not put those thoughts in a box.
Let’s unpack and talk about it.
I truly believe that each one of us was specially curated by our Creator, mixed beautifully with all His colours. We have different features, different challenges, different tests, different everything. We’re also given different blessings. Some of us have money. Some of us have family. Some of us have the looks. Some of us have good health. Some of us have a combination of all the above – you may think wow what a perfect life, but you forget these are tests for that person too.
There’s one particular blessing that we sometimes overlook that we don’t even notice it!
Any guesses?
Before you scroll down, think of one, please.
Don’t cheat.
Stop scrolling until you identify this hidden blessing.
I’ll give you Laderach chocolate.
Just kidding, I don’t have your address.