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Hazwani R's avatar

This is brilliant! I am an extrovert. Now that u pointed it out, i feel guilty. I am always the one talking i guess. I am going to try ur method the next time i meet up with my friends. Or maybe in WhatsApp group chat

Asma’ Nasaruddin's avatar

As an introvert, I approve and this was actually nice. As long as everyone else goes first 😂 it’s a very thoughtful way to make sure everyone gets a turn to talk or share something we wouldn’t usually share if we weren’t nudged to do so.

Alyya Najihah's avatar

As an introvert, ngl I’d be nervous if my circle of friends started doing this. Lol. On the other hand, they say every introvert has an extroverted best friend & vice versa; cause you know, someone needs to talk and someone needs to listen. And we introverts? We’re extremely good at listening 😆 Cause erm… what we actually do is, well, just listen?! 🤭

I just love love how you can start something like this; giving introverts a chance to share their experiences too. It also means they already feel comfortable with your circle, so they can talk freely. If not, urm they probably won’t share. And introverts usually love deep talks, so sometimes you’ll find they’re actually really good at talking, and you’ll wonder why they hid that talent before 🤭 It’s such a nice feeling when you give them space to speak, because they feel calmer and more at ease to voice out their thoughts.

Anyway, thanks for sharing some life lessons with us! 🫶🏻 It’s so nice seeing you adapting to your new private life. May Allah ease everything for you, Vivy 🤍 (or kak Vivy? Lol jk 🤪)

Vigneswari Michael's avatar

I grew up in a family where we used to do this sharing stuff, at the end of our sharing we get to choose who will go next. I’ve learned this from my parents.

FJ's avatar

Oh wow! Brilliant! Love this two updates method. Thank you for sharing Vivy!🥰🌹